You may not be married and wish just the right girl or fella would suddenly appear. Don’t be in too much of a hurry. Yes, you want to marry, and that may be the one thing that is consuming your life right now. That’s because you may think, erroneously so, that marriage is the answer to all of life’s problems. No! It is merely a change of venue and the start of new challenges and joys. But without the proper attitude, you won’t survive marriage. You must be willing to accept the idiosyncrocies of your partner and the dumb things you think he or she does. You need to be very supportive of him or her so that your future partner can grow to trust and love you. Soon enough you will get married and have children. Soon enough they will be out of diapers and be running around the house giving you fits. Then off to school they go, and when summer comes you will want to go on a vacation with these little guys and gals. That’s when they start learning new things, experiencing new sights and sounds. Whether yours is a vacation to Disney, Universial Studios, Marine Land, the mountains, the desert, a favorite city on a coast where you can kick back, or whereever, take time to enjoy your children and your spouce. Your kids grow up all to soon. Take plenty of photos and get in a lot of quality one-on-one time with each of them.
June 7, 2008